According to Ephesians 5:33, husbands and wives are commanded to supply separate psychological and emotional benefits for their mates. Husbands are commanded to supply LOVE, while wives are instructed to respect their husbands. This is not a simple matter of semantics. It is a distinctly different set of actions and opportunities that reflect the diversity of God’s creation. Simply stated; we don’t need the same thing from each other. We need what we need, and God has brilliantly provided a helpmeet to supply for us that which we cannot supply for ourselves.